Is it easy being different? No, it’s not! Whether it’s the difference in your personality or in your thinking or in your actions; it’s never even close to easy. People think being different is being difficult as in go to left when everyone is going right, deliberately. They think that being different is a deliberate attempt to shut out the possibilities to new experiences. They think being different is stubbornness to resist change that life offers. They say change and comfort zone never go hand in hand. Well, I do agree on the last point but I say, can we really change ourselves in what we are at the core? May be some people say yes, but don’t you think that change is almost always artificial, always for the people around you and not for yourself and the moment you are back with yourself you go back being what you are really are. That’s simply because some hard wired qualities are meant to be with us forever.
Having said that, it doesn’t mean I haven’t changed at all. Having stepped out of home more than six years back, I have changed a lot, and I indeed welcomed that change. It came at a slow and steady peace and I accepted it. I accepted it for myself, not for anyone else. I never thought I would have changed so much but I did. But I had never let these changes change me at what I am different. I still don’t go with the flow of the crowd. I still don’t agree just to agree. I still feel out of place for having different thoughts and opinions. But I guess it’s OK to be so, it keep you happy inside. Though it did hurt at the moment but later I was happy with my differences. At least I didn’t change to please others.
What does it mean to you to be different from the rest? Is it easy? What challenges do you face daily?
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